Climaxing (orgasm) can be defined as sudden discharge of accumulated sexual tension resulting in rhythmic muscular contractions in the pelvic region that produce intensely pleasurable sensations followed by rapid relaxation. Climax is also in part a psychological experience of pleasure and abandon, when the mind is focused solely on the personal experience

CLITORAL CLIMAX

The Best tool: Middle finger. Use the middle finger of your dominant hand, with help from your pointer. Always use the padded middle of the finger, not the tip or nail.

Starting skill: Find out what her motion of choice is—either little circles or flicks upward or downward. Pay attention to nonverbal cues also.

Drive her more: While continuing with her stroke of choice, make your touch broader by using more of your hand. Add a bit more pressure until you bring her to climax.

The second-best tool: Her vibrator. Use mostly the head of the pussy, rather than the shaft. Choose between the classic ridged variety and the smoother bullet style.

Starting skill: Rub the vibrator up and down along her entire private part, slowly. Use light pressure and a low setting. Don’t be scared of the vibrator—you need to hold it firmly in order to satisfy her.

Drive her over the edge: Focus all your attention on the clitoris. Then, as she gets more into it, start making longer movements from the clitoris to the G-spot and back.

VAGINAL CLIMAX

The Best tool: Your tongue. Use the tip and flat middle of your tongue as the primary source of stimulation.

Starting skill: Make firm motions with the tip and middle of your tongue. Then slip the clit into your mouth and massage with your tongue.

Drive her more: As she becomes excited, broaden your strokes and make them firmer. When she’s close to climax, use your fingers to rub her G-spot as well.

The second-best tool: Your penis. To please her, you need to focus your energy on what you do with the head, not the shaft. The ridge that separates the head from the shaft feels particularly good to women.

Starting skill: Use your penis to make short motions in and out of her vagina. As she becomes excited, add longer thrusts. Remember to keep the clitoral stimulation going as well.

Drive her over the edge: While using short thrusts, grab hold of the base of your penis and press upward, so there is more pressure on her G-spot. Continue with short thrusting motions, gradually getting faster and faster until she climaxes.

Thus it can be concluded that climax or orgasm is necessary for healthy sex.